{"id":48386,"date":"2018-06-07T16:30:55","date_gmt":"2018-06-07T21:30:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.wearezoe.org\/?p=48386"},"modified":"2023-09-13T15:33:45","modified_gmt":"2023-09-13T20:33:45","slug":"defying-cultural-norms-name-fatherhood","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/\/defying-cultural-norms-name-fatherhood\/","title":{"rendered":"Defying Cultural Norms in the Name of Fatherhood"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cWhen I look at my sister\u2019s baby, Moses, I\u2019m overcome with joy. ZOE has helped me understand that it\u2019s more of a blessing to care for Moses \u2014 and my sister \u2014 when I have God.<\/em>\u201d \u2012 Emmanuel, 2017 Graduate in Rwanda<\/p>\n

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\"Emmanuel<\/p>\n

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It\u2019s human nature to want to run from our problems. When undesirable circumstances arise and our fight or flight instinct kicks in, often times the craving to run as fast as possible in the other direction seems significantly more appealing than facing the issue head on.<\/p>\n

Orphans and vulnerable children living in poverty around the globe are not immune to this desire to escape.<\/p>\n

In 2014, Emmanuel believed there was no other option for him than to just run away from his small village in Rwanda. To simply sneak out into the blackness of the night and never look back.<\/p>\n

With seemingly no options for work in his community and no money for food, he and his special needs sister, Janine, starved regularly. Their situation seemed irreversible. His frustration and anger with his life grew stronger by the day. These feelings, he believed, could only be extinguished by starting over somewhere new.<\/p>\n

When he learned of ZOE, he decided to join an empowerment group because he heard promising stories from program graduates. He found the success stories of children just like him inspiring, and more importantly, they helped him see that a better tomorrow was possible\u2014without having to leave his community.<\/p>\n

One of the first lessons that resonated with him was that of Jeremiah 29:11. \u201cFor I know the plans I have you,\u201d declares the Lord, \u201cplans to prosper you and not harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.\u201d<\/p>\n

Never before had he considered that God had a plan for him. He thought God\u2019s plans were only for those who were beautiful and rich. Not him. But through the guidance of his empowerment group, he began to clearly understand that if he ran away from his problems, he would ruin God\u2019s plan\u2014and he worried he might upset God.<\/p>\n

About two years into the ZOE program, Janine was abused by an anonymous community member and became pregnant. Given her significant special needs, she was ill-equipped to handle her pregnancy alone.<\/p>\n

Although Emmanuel felt infuriated by the position Janine was forced into, after many months of working within his empowerment group and gaining tremendous traction with his career and stature within the community, he knew this was his time to step up and provide assistance to her.<\/p>\n

Emmanuel tended to Janine throughout her pregnancy. When the time came, he delivered the baby boy, whom he named Moses. Emmanuel and Janine\u2019s family name is Isezerano, meaning \u201cpromise\u201d. Emmanuel believed the Bible story of Moses being found and the newly discovered promise God made in his own life perfectly suited Janine\u2019s son.<\/p>\n

Despite cultural norms, Emmanuel took on the role of honorary father and brings Moses everywhere with him. Beyond his daily actions, Emmanuel\u2019s love for Moses and his well being is evident in the way he looks at him; each giggle and smile brings a twinkle to his eye. He takes complete care of both Moses and his sister including nighttime feedings and routine infant medical visits to the local pediatrician.<\/p>\n

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Now, as a 2017 ZOE graduate, Emmanuel earns a living for his small family by farming four of his empowerment group\u2019s 50 rice plots which profits $560 annually. He also steadily works as a respected carpenter within his community. Janine no longer faces abuse from community members because Emmanuel\u2019s achievements have secured him respect and status amongst his peers and community elders and she is closely associated with him.<\/p>\n

Although Emmanuel is not genetically the father of Moses, caring for him and his sister has brought significant meaning and joy to his life. He\u2019s grateful he faced his fears and didn\u2019t run from them because he knows that if he had left his community, he would never have received God\u2019s promises.<\/p>\n

380 million children living in extreme poverty will rely on charity forever.<\/h3>\n

$9 a month can change that.<\/h3>\n

A monthly gift of $9 over 3 years empowers one orphan out of poverty. How many children’s lives will you change?<\/p>\n

Learn More<\/span><\/a>\n

Want to learn more about Emmanuel\u2019s empowerment group? You can read more about the other group members and their rice farm project here<\/u><\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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